My name is Melissa, and I live in Colorado with my husband and 3 young children. They are all very wonderful, and I am so very blessed to be able to stay home with them! I sew and craft when I can, which isn't as often as I would like, but I do my best. :o)
This week I'll be giving away a few of my favorite things: a Pentel Fabric Gel Roller (which is awesome for labeling your quilts), one of Cristy's glue tips for glue basting (I glue baste EVERYTHING!), a new bottle of Elmer's washable glue (don't pay for the expensive stuff when this works just as well!), a 2-pack of sewing-themed washi tape (so cute!), my latest pattern! (Love Letters), and a set of 2 1/2" x 15" strips to complete the alphabet (26 strips from the Kona Solids New Brights palette). And I'll tuck them all into a sweet little Kona Solids tote by Robert Kaufman.
Oh, yeah! There's a bonus "I love Kona" tattoo! :o)
Comments are now closed. The winner is Comment 50 -- Lethargic Lass! (I'm emailing you now...)
*This giveaway will close at midnight MDT on Friday, May 16th, and I will randomly choose a winner and notify you by May 18th.* Again, make sure you aren't a no-reply blogger!
I stay home with my 3 kids too. The older two are in school now. It does make you appreciate the little one more, when you see how fast they grow up and are in school full time. It's good to remember that "this too shall pass" when your kid is going through a crazy phase. Best wishes!
ReplyDeleteMy little ones are now in school, but terribly busy traveling for sports and activities. Everyone keeps telling me that this "season of life" is short and I will miss it when it is done.
ReplyDeleteWhen my children were younger and it was the school holidays everyone went to their room after lunch for 1 hour of quiet time, napping or reading, while I did the same. It was good for all of us. Also, a new day is a new start, and if all else fails eat chocolate. xx
ReplyDeleteI love Kona solids! I include them in almost all of my quilts... My best advice is: Trust yourself. My oldest is almost four, and I'm just starting to learn to take parenting blogs/books/advice with a grain of salt. Some things work for some parents, but not for others. And I don't need any mommy guilt when my instincts don't match up with how other people do things.
ReplyDeleteI send my kids outside and read to take my mind off things. Sometimes the baby crawls around on top of me, but it is better than nothing. :) I think "not thinking" works better for me than having a mantra, but that is just me. :)
ReplyDeleteI think it's important to remember how much of a difference you make in your children's lives! Just think about how lucky you are to have them and how special they are. If you love them, everything will turn out fine. :)
ReplyDeleteI too am a SAHM. When times get tough, remember "it's just a phase"!
ReplyDeleteI have 4 kids I stay home with AND homeschool. It can get tough! On those days, I remind myself that the kids will not be little for long. In a blink of an eye they will be older and ready to test their wings. Then I take a deep breath and just enjoy them. Thanks for a fun giveaway.
ReplyDeleteLovely giveaway,thank you for the chance to win it.It is wonderful to be stay at home mum,treasure it,have fun and play with kids.Check out other blog mums for inspirations,tips or just enjoy it.Have a great week.
ReplyDeleteI stayed home with my two kids, who are now grown. My best advice is to let your kids be themselves, and enjoy who they become!
ReplyDeleteWhile this technically isn't motivation for mothers, this is something I like to try and remember. "Always listen earnestly to anything your children want to tell you, no matter what. If you don't listen eagerly to the little stuff when they are little, they won't tell you the big stuff when they are big, because to them all of it has always been big stuff." Thanks for the opportunity
ReplyDeleteI think that may be among the best advice I've ever heard. I am not a mother, but there are many children in my life whom I dearly love--some of whom are grown now--and I can attest to the truth of what you're saying.
DeleteI'm not a mom so I'm not sure about the encouragement - but I guess in general in life I try to just focus on the things that are good as much as possible. Thanks for the chance!
ReplyDeleteHave you seen the World's Toughest Job video on YouTube? I found it from another blog. I don't know that it gives much advice for mothers but it does validate the importance of what you're doing! My son is grown now and there were many times I had to remind myself that "this too shall pass" and sure enough, it did. And, hooray, grown kids are fun to hang around with!
ReplyDeleteI'm not a mom yet so I don't really have any words of encouragement since I haven't been there yet to learn them myself. But a general life advice - I believe in all things in moderation. It just makes life better. :) Words to live by from my grandpa!
ReplyDeleteI find being a mum the most difficult job in the world, I hate being a SAHM, I really need to work outside the home even just part time it saves my sanity. Love your prize
ReplyDeleteMy friend and I always say to each other "You're doing the best that you can and you're a good Mom". Another one is: There is not such thing as a perfect Mom but there is such a thing as a great Mom.
ReplyDeleteBreathe a lot. As a teacher (not a mom), I always try to remind myself when I'm frustrated that they probably are too...and I get to model how I deal (or don't) with frustration.
ReplyDeleteI think just a simple "I love you" always works! Thanks for the giveaway!
ReplyDeleteThis is a subject I could write a book on. I have 4 new DIL, 8 new grandbabies and one adopted granddaughter. My first is Moma is always right ! Follow through on what you say, you cant give enough hugs and kisses and if Moma aint happy no body is happy. As moms its up to you to lead and keep your family intact. Dont be materialistic.
ReplyDeleteYOU are the best mom for your kids, not because you are perfect -- there is no such thing -- but because they were given to YOU. Do your best and don't worry! (I am a mom of 3 littles) sarah@forrussia.org
ReplyDeleteStaying home with kids is the most important job in the world - you are shaping the future.
ReplyDeleteWoo, good giveaway! I don't have a good phrase to say, but I know my kids are happiest when I really engage with them. And it's hard sometimes, to stop cleaning, or working, or simply playing on my phone, to do that. But it's always good when I do.
ReplyDeleteI am not a mom, but lately when I need a pick me up, I trun on the song Happy by Pharrell. Trust me, it works.
ReplyDeleteTake time to laugh and play even if you dont feel like it kathypersons@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteLook for the humor in everything! A glass of wine in the evening doesn't hurt either! Your kids will be grown before you know it so enjoy them now.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who says "the days are long but the years are short" I try to remember that when I get run down.
ReplyDeleteJust keep in mind that they grow up way too fast. Enjoy your time now .
ReplyDeleteWhen my Mom would visit she would go through my house like a whirlwind, leaving me with a clean house but depressed about my homemaking abilities. She would always say, "You do so many things so well, you love your family and make them happy, you have so many talents. I have the time to clean while you love your family." So grateful for her kind words.
ReplyDeleteFigure out the priorities. You can always wash tomorrow but you can only read bedtime stories so long. Walks with a 3 year old are more rewarding than a clean sink. Enjoy every stage. They are unique. Thanks.
I'm in the same boat (SAHM). What picks me up is when my daughter says to me, "i ruff yew mommy" - and then the day's troubles and tantrums and fights all just melt away!
ReplyDeleteI get that way, too. I wrote a blog post about it recently...
ReplyDeletehttp://www.pacountrycrafts.blogspot.com/2014/05/what-moms-really-need-for-mothers-day.html
Thanks for the chance to win!
I Stayed home with my eldest hes 26 this year and a wonderful young man and I have stayed home on and of with the younger two 11yr Daughter 13yr Son (who is on the Autism spectrum) Time well spent. I think it makes a big difference in there lives if you can be there when they get home I still walk mine to the bus every morning even though its at the end of the drive I grateful to been able to spend time with them it goes so fast trust me. Dad is Serving in the military he will be overseas for a year so it gets hard but we get through it. Yes to all of the above comments and much more enjoy
ReplyDeleteI too am a SAHM who loves her children but gets a little down when I'm inundated with house chores or think about the great job I used to have. In those times, I love to be able to catch up with other mums who feel the same and just be there for each other as a shoulder to cry on. And it's also lovely to hear other mums or the teachers tell me about something wonderful or out of the ordinary my kids have done and how they think it's because of me that my kids have developed that skill, etc. :)
ReplyDeleteMy sister told me a long time ago, when the kids do something that makes you want to lose your temper, grab the camera and take a picture, because someday it'll make you laugh.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the awesome giveaway.
Just remember that the time home with your children will be over in the blink of an eye! I know! I homeschooled and thought i would never have time to myself. Well, they are 40 years old, now!
ReplyDeleteI love that pattern!
ReplyDeletePfew, that´s a tricky question. One thing I keep telling myself is to be patient - with my daughter, with my life and the way things go and also most importantly with myself. I want to do everything perfect but not everyone can.
Mine are 30s and 40s now and I can tell you, I still think of them as my little children. I was a stay at home mom for a while and a college student and a professional employee. There are hard times no matter what you are doing. Just know, you WILL look back and laugh. (especially when THEY have kids) crystalbluern at onlineok dot com
ReplyDeleteI always hear "Enjoy them while they're young, they grow up so fast" so I'm really trying to enjoy my little ones even though they drives me nuts!
ReplyDeleteOne thing living with three children has taught me, is that I am NOT their playmate. I can help them, encourage them, inspire them, work with them, but I am not at player.
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I stay at home too with my three little girls, and I really like it, the oldest started kindergarten 2 years ago, and number 2 will start in september too, so it will get more quiet over here
ReplyDeletefabulous giveaway! Me and my husband would love to have a family, but it's not possible for us so my word of encouragement would be "be grateful for what you have".
ReplyDeleteIt's important to remember that the day to day moments, (particularly the trying ones) will fade from your memory & it's the wonderful, treasured times that will be the things that you do remember. Every parent questions themselves & thinks that they could do better but if you love your children unconditionally & let them know that you do, I think that is the greatest thing you can do for them. Thanks for the chance to win this awesome prize.
ReplyDeleteAmen, feeling loved is the most important.
DeleteIt's just a phase... it might seem like a very long one... but still a phase. ;)
ReplyDeleteHI:) I'm a stay at home mom of 2 and when my son was born, I was having a rough time dealing with the constant pull of both, leaving no room for myself or my husband.. Then I realized that being a mother of such young children is SUCH a blink of time in the span of your life, it will be gone before I know it, and then I will miss it dearly. That thought helps me put things into perspective when I'm feeling frustrated or drained and then I just want to squeeze them forever :)
ReplyDeleteI am a SAHM too, early retired when my son was born...way early retired...I know well the frustrations and the JOY of the choice!
ReplyDeleteI think it's important to take some time for yourself (even if it's just 5 minutes) so that you can be fully involved with your kids when you are with them. Spending full time with your kids is exhausting and it's a struggle to justify time for yourself but everyone wins when there is a little balance.
ReplyDeleteI WISH I was a stay at home mum - best pick me up is Friday night and a weekend of no work, but lots of sewing....
ReplyDeleteI am expecting our first child in October so my experience is limited, but we plan to have a babysitter regularly so we can still spend time as a couple. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI am afraid i cannot answer to your question, because i have no kids or nephews! I believe that a kiss and a hug can take it all away, sometimes!
ReplyDeleteOh, I hear you! I'm a WAHM myself, and it can be so hard. One tip does not fit all! Focus is a good one. I find my son accepts my needing to go off and fix dinner or work or what have you and not pay attention to him if I pay attention to him first. I took to setting a timer so that I didn't have to track the time either, then I put away all distractions and just focus on him. It seem so often that the root of whatever BS your kid is pulling is fixed by this kind of time. Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteI don't have children but I do work from home and I always encourage anyone who works from home to make sure they have scheduled reasons to be out of the home. It's so important to keep your social life up so that you don't waste away. OR at least it is for me! :)
ReplyDeleteI have no kids, but I do think that you need to think about yourself just as much as you think about the kids, or you won't be at your best for them
ReplyDeleteHere is something I heard recently: "don't compare your insides to somebody else's outsides". Because you know how things are really going, and all the challenges you face in a day, don't compare that to the glossy, happy, perfectly polished impression you get from other people. They have their own flaws and struggles, and it's likely you're each doing the best you can.
ReplyDeleteMake time for yourself. I started sewing when my now 8 month old was a newborn- quite the time to pick up a new hobby! But for me, it was the best, allowed me to pull away and do something I loved. Also, make time to go out and see a movie with a friend or get tacos. It may not happen frequently, but let yourself recharge.
ReplyDeleteI don't have kids, but as a (sort of) adult, I can not appreciate how much my mom has done for me enough!
ReplyDelete"This too will pass" I've got two littlies, there is no trick, it's hard work and something has to give, currently it's my sewing, next week it may be the gardening or house keeping! Don't judge yourself by anyone else, as long as your children are happy, healthy, dressed, and fed you're doing well.
ReplyDeleteIt's usually my kid's who give me the pick-me-up, nothing beats a kiss or cute smile. Thanks for the giveaway!
ReplyDeleteMy youngest is 16 and my oldest has bless us with a granddaughter. There is a middle one too. I promise that seeing them become parents and pass along to their children the values that you worked so hard to instill in them is priceless. Thanks for participating in the Giveaway Day.
ReplyDelete"The days are long, the years are brief"~ Enjoy them, really enjoy them now, because time flies and soon they will all be out on their own.
ReplyDeleteDon't give up! They will thank you when they are grown. What you do now decides what they do in their lifetime.
ReplyDeleteHello, I was a stay at home mom of 8, 5 boys and 3 girls, and I always said if someone came into my home and commented on why I did not dust, I would say, take a sock off and do it yourself, I am busy helping make memories....
ReplyDeleteI was a stay at home mom and enjoyed that time so much. I liked it when we would have a combination of days. Somedays outside, some in. Some reading, painting, modeling clay. Each Tuesday we would visit a different library and then spend the rest of the day in that neighborhood - we both are pretty familiar with the different areas of town now! Used yahoo groups to meet people in this county and hopped on field trips in different counties too. Lots of fun. Best of luck and thanks for putting my name in the hat for the drawing.
ReplyDeleteI'm a sahm too! Biggest thing and hardest is follow through. You say something you have to mean it! So if you tell them they have to earn something they have to do it. And if you count (we do from 5 down to 1) you have to FOLLOW through :D
ReplyDeleteI would give anything to stay home with my kids...cherish every moment even the ones when you want to pull your hair out.
ReplyDeletei don't have kids, but i have an awesome momm! tip/advice: go on outings with your kids just because! ice cream, bowling, etc.
ReplyDeleteRemember to say "yes" to your children rather than always saying "no". It's too easy to get in the habit of saying "no".
ReplyDeleteJust had my 1st homeschooling review with our school district this morning . So this afternoon I've been reflecting on our first entire year in this venture and another homeschooling mom gave me some good advice during my first month to teaching which is my advice to any parent….."Don't try to teach your children everything. Teach them how to teach themselves." Great advice for a 5 yr old who is no longer learning to read, but reading to learn. So that's my advice to you….that an a reeeeeeally good cup of coffee in the am!
ReplyDeletei'm a stay-at-home mom too. when my daughter really starts driving me crazy, it's usually because she's being a kid & getting into mischief or wanting to play when i want to be sewing/reading/whatever. if i can take a deep breath & tell myself, "she's not trying to bug you, she's just being a kid," i usually feel better. & i remind myself that she won't be little like this forever & someday i'll have more time to sew/read/whatever than i know what to do with. these are cliches, i guess, but they do help me get through some of the rough patches.
ReplyDeleteEvery mom gets discourgaged, every single one, don't forget that. That's the best advice I can give. Don't get down on yourself because sometimes you feel a little overwhelmed.
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As a single mother (my husband died when they were 1-6) of 4 kids who are now grown, believe me every phase will pass and it will happen so fast. We all get discouraged. In the end, you look back and realize you have great kids. Keep enjoying them. Don't sweat the little things. Who cares if they want blue hair?
ReplyDeleteI think the best encouragement is to find other moms! It helps so much to have other moms to talk and complain to and to have them tell you that things are normal and you're doing a good job!
ReplyDeleteI had two kids by adoption, and one had Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. That brings a lot of behavioral problems, mental illness, and difficulty learning. I was a stay at home mom, and dealt with those behaviors day in, day out. Ignore what isn't important, and give a lot of attention to the good behaviors. It really does help. We also did foster care, it worked with every kid. My sons are now 25, both hold steady jobs and are doing really well.
ReplyDeleteBlink and they will all be 30......... Time goes so fast. Enjoy them while you have them.
ReplyDeleteGreat giveaway. Thanks so much for sharing.
Don't sweat the small stuff. It will still be there tomorrow but your kids will grow before you know it. Mine are now 31 and 34. How did that happen? I miss them being little even though I love the adults they have become.
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It may be hard at times but you are doing the most rewarding and important job there is. I've found when I'm getting frustrated it's just because I want to do one then and the family is preventing it in some way... so the best thing to do is stop, take a deep breath and focus on the moment.
ReplyDeleteYOU are the expert on your own child :)
ReplyDeleteI'm a sahm also. It's does get quite frustrating at times. Good thing they're cute! lol!!
ReplyDeleteFollow your gut.
ReplyDeleteHey you! As awesome as your giveaway is, I'm mostly entering to tempt fate. I'd crack up if my name is pulled. And I give you permission to pick someone else should that happen. ;)
ReplyDeleteEnjoy every stage because they grow up fast
ReplyDeleteDo something for yourself every day! Even if it's just 15 minutes of alone time.
ReplyDeleteI've used the Elmer's washable glue stick but never thought of using the bottle. Enjoy the time with your kids. They grow up so fast. Mine are 23 and 21, I miss those days now.
ReplyDeleteI stay at home with my 3 and MANY days are trying. Lately Ive found I really need to focus on myself anf my husband a little more each day. So important. Thanks for the chance.
ReplyDeleteclunsford at gmail dot com
The classic "it's just a phase" comes to my mind a lot! But my main thing is to try and fit in at least 15 mins of sewing time every couple of days to preserve my sanity.
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The best encouragement would be to think to the future when they are 30 years old and you are surrounded by your wonderful children and their partners and having a wonderful family meal together. Think of the pride you will have :) Keep smiling!!
ReplyDeleteI too stayed home with my kids when they were younger and while it can be quite the daunting job ya times please don't ever lose sight of its importance. You are molding lives and believe it or not they are molding yours!!
ReplyDeleteI feel for you because staying home with kids can be a very demanding job sometimes. My favorite quote for when things are bad is this, This too shall pass. I say it a lot! Just try to enjoy what you can, they grow up so fast and then the dreaded teenage years are there. I do not want to repeat that one again! Lol! Thanks for the giveaway.
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A year ago I became an independent consultant so now I can combine much more easily work and family.. Thanks so much for this great giveaway!
ReplyDeleteI guess my best advice with kids is to keep it simple and find what makes them the most creative and happy. Working with them to find their creative spark then run with it! It makes my heart leap when I see them at work doing what makes them truly happy. Thanks for the giveaway and have a wonderful day!
ReplyDeleteTalk to your children. And read to them.
ReplyDeleteMake sure you get yourself some "Me" time! I recently met up with friends for a day of food and shopping. The wonderful hubs took a half day off work so I could go and relax. Just chatting and enjoying the day was a great breather, when I'm usually home all day with the kids.
ReplyDeletesyfalkenstein at gmail dot com
My mother always told me that when life got hard to hold your head up and ride out the storm. Bad days pass. Remember the song 'My mama told me, that there would be days like this'?
ReplyDeleteI am a SAHM and my oldest has special needs so I understand how overwhelming it can be at times. When I am reaching my limit I just tell my girls 'Mommy needs a time out. Back in 5 minutes.' It works well and helps keep me sane. blackflowersacidrain(at)gmail(dot)com
ReplyDeleteWhat a fabulous giveaway! I love your quilt pattern. ;) Good advice for mom's? Don't bother comparing yourself to other moms -- your kids are unique and you are parenting them in a way that is best for them! Also, your kids will remember the good moments much more readily than the bad, so give yourself some slack and just do the best you can!!
ReplyDeleteLovely giveaway! But I wouldn't try to mail elmer's internationally-- sometimes there are rules against liquids. I stayed at home with my kids when they were young. I spent a lot of time repeating myself, and reading to and with them, etc. Now, I can tell you, all the attention pays off. I actually have parents come up to ma and ask how we did it, if they can be cloned, etc. All you do now will come back to you sevenfold when they are older and can weigh decisions for themselves, or know that your door is always open for them, no matter what the question or problem is. And as for encouraging Them, because sometimes kids compare themselves to each other, I recommend the kids book: Leo the Late Bloomer.
ReplyDeleteMy suggestion is do what your gut tells you. Don't look online, read books, ask people...you probably already know the best answer. Trust yourself.
ReplyDeleteI am a pretty new mom (my little guy is 17 months old) but when I find myself getting frustrated because he's being super clingy or needy, I just take a deep breath and remind myself that he will only be this little once, and I end up enjoying our cuddle time.
ReplyDeleteI have 3 "kids" who have been grown-up for quite awhile! One of my most important parenting tips is something that I learned by accident. My first "child" was in fact, a twin boy and girl. They were SO different! From the day they were born! I did not try to turn them into what I wanted, but instead tried to guide them into finding out, themselves, who they are. That approach brought me alot of joy!
ReplyDeleteWhen my girls were younger, the most encouraging thing anyone ever said to me was "no one calls their mum from college to come and wipe their bum." For some reason, I found that very uplifting. ;)
ReplyDeleteThanks for the lovely giveaway!
Very nice! I try to do my best as a parent, but not to expect perfection. There are always tough days you want to leave and it's OK to feel that way. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI'm a mom to twins, so I had days where I felt like the worst mother!
ReplyDeleteBelieve me, you are a great mom. The fact that you ask for advice, shows that you are a loving mom. Enjoy the quiet times, the times your children try to gain independence, or become clingy.
Hahaha, I'd say as long as no one is currently eating or slinging poop, if everyone got fed at some point, at everyone got at least a snuggle, You're doing a great job!!!! I don't think our lives are about perfection, rather finding small moments of victory and beauty.
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ReplyDeleteI think my mom loves that stuff.
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I stayed at home with my four children - I loved it!
ReplyDeletePlenty of fresh air worked for us!
I'm not a mom, but I think it's just good advice to try and keep a little bit of patience in reserve. How does the saying go? "Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it."
ReplyDeleteGood luck! (Just keep swimming!)
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I'm not a mom. Last year I was at Old Navy and there was a mom in front of me. She had two young boys (preschoolers maybe?) and they kept getting into this and that and kept asking if they could get this or that. She was so patient and kept explaining to them over and over, no, not this time, without getting mad. I was next in line behind her and as she was leaving I said, I think you're a really good mom, and she almost started to cry! So I guess that I would say is that people do care about you and see what you do, even if most people don't even say anything.
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This too shall pass.
ReplyDeleteI have three yr old twin boys!
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I'm not a mom, but if I could say anything to mom's out there, it's probably "They'll appreciate it when they're older" - there are so many times I can think of when I was being a little shit when I was a kid and my mom would stick to her guns and it's so easy when you're 8 or 12 or whatever to just say I Hate You and storm off. But I appreciate now that I spent hours of every day outside playing, I appreciate that she worked to develop my imagination through books, I appreciate that she didn't make everything easy for me because it made me be more independent. It can take a long time for kids to realize that their parents are just people, with flaws, and not all-powerful, all-knowing gods, but when that realization finally comes, so does all the appreciation for all the ways they tried to do their best.
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For me it's when someone tells me I'm doing a great job out of the blue in a specific way. Recently I discovered a website called surprised by motherhood. She wrote a book by the same name and has a couple of videos on there that just said, essentially I know you're not perfect, but you're doing great work--mighty work.
ReplyDeleteMy best advice is to don't overanalyze what you and your kids are doing. You will not be perfect and neither will they, but you will all be good enough. And the more you let them move freely in the world (within their age limits) to explore, the more likely they are to be successful adults. Overprotected kids become helpless adults. And remember, you are the parent, not their best friend. It's not your job to entertain them all of the time, but rather to give them the skills to entertain themselves, to become independent, thoughtful, and interesting adults.
ReplyDeleteI love getting the advice that I don't have to be a Mom out of a storybook. It's ok for my house to be a mess or things to not get finished. Work hard to love your kids and have a happy home, the other stuff isn't going to matter in 10, 20, 30 years.
ReplyDeleteI don't have kids so my advice would be to call their Auntie when you need a break. And remember that bedtime always comes, just hang on a few more hours!
ReplyDeleteI am so with you, I was a little down and didn't get any sewing done last month, it was tough, especially if you have no outlet, do you get any time away? Wishing you the best.
ReplyDeleteThis too shall pass. You may not think so at times but it is true. You have the most amazing and thoughtful giveaway ever. It's like a dream come true. I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like to have this waiting for you at your mailbox. Thank you for being a part of the Sew Mama Sew giveaway and this wonderful opportunity to win this giveaway.
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I don't have any kids, so hopefully knowing that all of us who don't are in complete awe of your ability to be a mom will help. Because I am in awe of mother's (and father's)!
ReplyDeleteThey grow up, it is only a phase. Teenagers are a different animal though. Mom of 4 between 2-18.
ReplyDeleteI'm a SAHM too. Somebody once told me, "Don't worry about enjoying every minute and don't feel bad if you don't. Whoever said that didn't have kids." It made me feel so much better about myself when I had days when I was just "done." Sometimes it's not easy, it's ok to be frustrated. Just make sure you take some you time to get through it.
ReplyDeleteRegardless of how many times a day you raise your voice or how many times you want to pull your hair out, hearing that you're a good mom makes a world of difference!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for the chance!
I have two that I homeschool and am with all day everyday. And when I want to pull my hair and call it quits.. I look at them and remember that they may not remeber driving me absolutely bonkers some days..but they will know and remember that I was there for them everyday and their every need. And when they get older and are on their own..I will have all of these wonderful memories to keep me company instead of regretting I would that I had more time with them or I had done with this them and that.
ReplyDeleteWhen I get down, I try to remind myself that they have to go to bed eventually, lol. Also? Wine ;) honestly though, it does go by so fast, and they generally do something cute and lovable often enough to outweigh the bad times :)
ReplyDelete• • • Life is too short, be happy! Thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteFrom someone whose kids are grown and gone...treasure your time with them. It passes really quickly. And take breaks away from them too. It helps to put things in perspective.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fun giveaway! Thanks for the chance to win! As for occasional discouragement, I hear you! But one of the wonderful things about children is that eventually they grow up and may give you grandchildren! I have a three year old granddaughter now who is the light of my life.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are grown & gone & I miss those busy times. My daddy used to tell me "the days are long but the years are short"
ReplyDeleteJust relax & enjoy being together.
Just remind yourself how difficult you're going to be when they're taking car of you in your old age!
ReplyDeleteI could only have one son, but I homeschooled him until he left for college. Find other mothers to hang with, don't delay having fun because you have chores, and it will pass faster than you can believe. My son graduated from college tomorrow, and he was only two yesterday! I envy you!
ReplyDeleteTake a deep breath and enjoy them!! Have a lot of fun ways to "switch gears" keeps them on their toes and everyone happy!
ReplyDeleteI don't have kids but I hear "it gets better" ;D
ReplyDeleteMy kids are in kindergarden still and I work fulltime. I get on better with leaving them be noisy and messy and untidy as they are now and then and take 10 minutes of peace for myself, it recharges my batteries and then there's enough patience for every request and many whims. Thanks for the giveaway!
ReplyDeleteI don't have kids, but whenever a challenging day or event arises I always try to remember all the times I overcame something I didn't think I could make it though!
ReplyDeleteI have three as well, two boys and one girl. The most encouraging thought for me is to know that despite all my failings and possible wrong motivations, their heavenly Father cares for them many more times than I do and has their futures in His hands! I have a great mom-friend network, mostly from our church, and we do playdates and sew dates and coffee dates and bible study. It helps me so much to hear experiences of other women and to realize they and their kids have the same failings as we do and then we can help each other work through them. <3
ReplyDeleteI'm a stay at home mom too, my little boy just turned two! I have trouble sometimes remembering to "be present". Technology is so pervasive that it's hard to remember to take breaks and just spend time playing and listening and teaching!
ReplyDeletewell I work out side of the home, and all I can say is the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I wish I could be a SAHM although I know it is a heck of a lot more work. Just remember the blessing you're giving the kids by being present. They will remember that as they grow older.
ReplyDelete'This too shall pass' but it is important to remember that that is true of both the good and bad things!
ReplyDeleteMy would be don't compare yourself to others. I have a really bad problem with that. It only leaves you sad and anxious.
ReplyDeleteI remind myself that i have been chosen to parent these kids and that I am the right mom for them and they are the right kids for me. To just do my best !
ReplyDeleteThanks for the giveaway. Always remember to take a little time for yourself. You can't take care of others if you're too frazzled.
ReplyDeleteI like to remember that all these phases of development will pass and to enjoy it all you can!
ReplyDeleteI can have a do-over whenever I want. Everyone to their separate corners, take a few (or MANY!) deep breaths, and then apologize/hug/tickle/make up however you need to with each person, and try again. I can have as many as I want, whenever I want.
ReplyDeleteWe're using a lot of do overs here these days.
Also, as Mom, I get to eat the chocolate/cookies/ice cream whenever I want/need.
You're not alone! When your kids are being horrid and you think everyone is looking and judging you...they're not. They're thinking, "I've so been there."
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A little bit of humor goes a long way. If you can't see the humor in a situation read or watch something funny.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite encouragement is to let new moms know that its okay to take a break. Your sanity is important when you are raising children.
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Well I think just offering to help out or even just take the kids for an hour or something. I actually got divorced and started my masters program the same year with my 14 mth old daughter 4 hrs from anyone I knew. My grad school buddies (none of which had kids) would help me out by studing at my apartment when she was alseep or even sitting with her during nap time for an hour while I went to the laundry mat. They watched me struggle and also just tolerating her in the computer lab jabbering away. It was nice of them and it helped me out a lot. I even had a few offer up their washer and dryer so I didn't have to pay to wash.
ReplyDeleteNot being a mom or even an aunt I'm not sure what I can offer. However, we do have 4 cats and when they are being terrible or destroy something I try to remember they can't understand what I'm upset about and getting mad will just scare them. Life is too short for a scared kitty (or kid) so I just laugh or shake my head. Things are replaceable.
ReplyDeleteBest encouragement for moms? This will not last forever (that is what I am always telling myself).
ReplyDeleteHave patience. The rough days (and even the rough years) will pass. You might even miss them, or at least some part of them.
ReplyDeleteThey grow up fast! And they will ;) I promise. Hide and seek is always fun and gives you a few minutes to have to yourself if you hide well. ksmith8@emich.edu
ReplyDeleteI gave up worry about my house and try to spend more time with my kiddos.
ReplyDeleteMy Kiddo's are grown now & have their own Kiddo's....but I know it was nice to have someone say I had well behaved children, when we were at a store. I was a single Mom...with 4 Kiddo's... I tell Mom's to enjoy allll the lil' things....take time to read to them, listen to them & laugh with them. They grow up sooo fast. :)
ReplyDeleteI was able to stay at home with 3 of my 4 kids. Now I am a NaNa and I wish I knew then what I know now. I was impatient with my "me" time, but know I know to treasure all the time with them when they are little and your "me" time will come. :) Also, pick your battles, let them wear their favorite shirt 3 times a week, it's not worth another battle.
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I'm not a mom, yet, been trying for years so my encouragement is to remember you're blessed to have the kiddos! I can imagine life can get tough, complicated and overwhelming, but it must also be humorous, joyful and rewarding, too. :)
ReplyDeleteI only have one little one right now, but the thing that I always remember is "The days are long but the years are short." She is only 15 months but it is already oh so true.
ReplyDeleteMy greatest encouragement is 'You can do this!' Sometimes we forget that in the day-to-day. Thanks for the giveaway! Dinder1(at) yahoo(dot) com
ReplyDeleteIts okay to have days that aren't perfect. Ask for help, take a break. Breathe. Then come back with fresh eyes and open heart and you will be good to go.
ReplyDeleteJust remember that sweet little smile they give you and all is forgiven!
ReplyDeleteJust a simple "you are doing a great job" can make all the difference in the world.
ReplyDeleteI don't have the experience of being a mom, but going through a lot of the giveaway posts, and thinking back on the beginnings of my sewing experience, I have so many fond memories of projects I've made with my mom, and I now have this lifelong love. So my encouragement would be to share your hobbies with your kids. They will cherish it one day.
ReplyDelete"No matter what you are doing, youre doing it right."
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it's ok to ask your hubby to take a day off so you can take a nap! I did that today :)
ReplyDeleteThis too shall pass.... lots of others have already said it, but for those tough days (teething, argh!) you need to keep reminding yourself. But otherwise, do what works for you and your family. And on days when it feels like you get nothing done, remind yourself you've kept a little human alive.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the chance!
I think it's important to forgive yourself when you mess up just as quickly as you forgive your kids when they mess up. It's hard to give the best of yourself when you're still kicking yourself. Thanks! wonderlandbyalyce(at)gmail(dot)com
ReplyDeleteI think its always important to remind moms that they are raising wonderful children. They are blessed to have her. And they are appreciated.
ReplyDeleteDo the best you can as a mom, but don't worry about being perfect. Your kids will love you nonetheless.
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